"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Two Girls Too Many

aussiegoat55

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I'm at university right now and I've been meeting a lot of new people, girls and guys, and I've flirted with one girl who I have so much in common with, plus we've had some weird coincidences of running into each other. She's invited me to hang out, I know she likes me. I asked for her number when I first met her, we've had dinner, etc.

But then, out of fvcking nowhere comes this other chick I met and we hooked up the very day I met her, needless to say I never expected that and it's going a bit too fast than I'm used to. And this girl is absoultey crazy for me, a total minx.

The three of us all live in the same dorm hall. I want to date both because they're both cool, good girls, not like I'm dating a slvt and this would be a no-brainer, but it seems like cheating or that one girl might will get hurt, I'm concerned other people will find out, news spreads fast by word of mouth here.

Anyway, I wanted some advice on how to handle the situation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alphamale1821

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your a player and none of these girls are your girlfriend. You haven't made an exclusive commitment to one of them so you are fine to date, and **** who you want.
 

Biggie

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I agree, do em both. Even if they found out they may or may not stop talking to you, but that doesn't mean their attraction will be gone. Alpha is right, you haven't made any actual commitment to either of them so you have an excuse if they try to get all pissy with you.
 
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