"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Two Girls Too Many

aussiegoat55

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I'm at university right now and I've been meeting a lot of new people, girls and guys, and I've flirted with one girl who I have so much in common with, plus we've had some weird coincidences of running into each other. She's invited me to hang out, I know she likes me. I asked for her number when I first met her, we've had dinner, etc.

But then, out of fvcking nowhere comes this other chick I met and we hooked up the very day I met her, needless to say I never expected that and it's going a bit too fast than I'm used to. And this girl is absoultey crazy for me, a total minx.

The three of us all live in the same dorm hall. I want to date both because they're both cool, good girls, not like I'm dating a slvt and this would be a no-brainer, but it seems like cheating or that one girl might will get hurt, I'm concerned other people will find out, news spreads fast by word of mouth here.

Anyway, I wanted some advice on how to handle the situation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alphamale1821

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your a player and none of these girls are your girlfriend. You haven't made an exclusive commitment to one of them so you are fine to date, and **** who you want.
 

Biggie

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I agree, do em both. Even if they found out they may or may not stop talking to you, but that doesn't mean their attraction will be gone. Alpha is right, you haven't made any actual commitment to either of them so you have an excuse if they try to get all pissy with you.
 
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