"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yo, I've recently been gaming this girl in my math class and she confuses the hell outta me so I thought I'd ask some experienced Djs for their help. The problem is it is actually impossible to judge her interest level. One second she's kinoing me (putting her leg on mine, hugging me, standing shoulder to shoulder to me) and I always kino her back, but sometimes she just gets really pissed off about it, and says "don't touch me" in a really harsh way. I've been told she likes me but now she tells me she likes my buddy. Pretty much, I am confused as hell.

BTW I know the answer , andI will "next her", because she is really not worth the effort, but can you guys figure out what she's doing? (I just wanna know if my techniques were working)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ryannath

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I think she likes you man and when she says "don't touch her" it gets her wet, but she doesn't want you to do that in front of her friends. She wants you to grow a pair and invite her over, or for you to come over. Get somewhere alone with her. Tell her man.
 
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hahaahaahghasahahahahhahaha the classic push and pull, shes gaming you man, it is the oldest skill that girls use to drive you out of your mind.
next time just laugh in her face and say:"ahahhahaha i cant belive you think i will fall for your stupid games." and continue play with her.
 
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Like I said I'm going to next her anyways becuase in all honesty she's really not worth it. I just asked the question to see if my skills were working. Looks like they did a bit, but she's doing a good job on me too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She likes you and she is scared.
1on1 is the best place to ask her out.
 
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PleasureKing said:
she likes you. ask her out when your alone with her. trust me on this one.
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follow my advice above dude. you'll be surprised once it works.
 
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I feel sorry for you if you make this pass you by. This is a common sh1t test and your running away from it. This won't be the only girl you ever meet who acts like that. But do whatever you feel. She is basically push/pulling, you are giving her the validation everytime you fall for it.

It brings back memories of a girl I know. Her way of messing with people she likes she does the exact same thing. First few times it used to trip me up but then I didn't let it get to me and acted like it didn't affect me and ever since that everything was going good and still is.
 
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Zerotwoonenine said:
hahaahaahghasahahahahhahaha the classic push and pull, shes gaming you man, it is the oldest skill that girls use to drive you out of your mind.
next time just laugh in her face and say:"ahahhahaha i cant belive you think i will fall for your stupid games." and continue play with her.
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Dont call her out on this. Show by your actions not your words.

A possibility i didnt read was that she likes your mate and doesnt want him to think she is easy
 
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i would say ****k it also. she has mood swings man. I would not **** with that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Regardless if she likes me or not, you dont know this girl or her personality. I am letting her pass by becasue the other part of her personality aren't to my liking.
 
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