"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Two Dates and I get this...

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I went out with this broad twice....All going good....Got some good action and all then I get this:

Hey,

I just thought I would email you and let you know the way things are for me right now. I realized this weekend that I'm not mentally ready to move into a new relationship anytime soon. I guess when I went online dating...it was mostly for fun and didnt think I would ever pursue anything. These last few days I think I have realized that I'm not really ready for anything serious yet and to be fair on you I thought I should let you know. I know how you are with people and their baggage and so I just want you to know that I think I do still have some baggage to sort out before I pursue anything with anyone new. Im sorry to do this to you but I figure its better now than later when feelings get involved. I think your a great guy and we definitely had some fun together and I know we only went out a couple of times I think I owe you this...I think you should really know were my mind is at the moment.

Anyway, I thought this was for the best...I wanted to be honest with you!!!
I think you are a nice guy and there are many girls out there Im sure that dont have any baggage and are ready for something new. I hope things work out for you and I hope you find what your are looking for.

Maybe when I get my life sorted out and I am ready to pursue something and if your still single of course ...maybe then we can talk if you would be interested. Until then I think I need some things to sort out in my life and I think I really do need more time alone...I dont want to confuse myself or someone else in the meantime.


Take Care!!
XX

My Response:

Hey ..

I hope that you didn't feel like it had to go that way just because we hung out a couple of times.

Either way, I agree, I don't think the chemistry was really there...

All the best!
Rich

Gotta love women these days....:kick: Two freaking dates and I get a novel...:crazy:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KingRich said:
I went out with this broad twice....All going good....Got some good action and all then I get this:

Hey,

I just thought I would email you and let you know the way things are for me right now. I realized this weekend that I'm not mentally ready to move into a new relationship anytime soon. I guess when I went online dating...it was mostly for fun and didnt think I would ever pursue anything. These last few days I think I have realized that I'm not really ready for anything serious yet and to be fair on you I thought I should let you know. I know how you are with people and their baggage and so I just want you to know that I think I do still have some baggage to sort out before I pursue anything with anyone new. Im sorry to do this to you but I figure its better now than later when feelings get involved. I think your a great guy and we definitely had some fun together and I know we only went out a couple of times I think I owe you this...I think you should really know were my mind is at the moment.

Anyway, I thought this was for the best...I wanted to be honest with you!!!
I think you are a nice guy and there are many girls out there Im sure that dont have any baggage and are ready for something new. I hope things work out for you and I hope you find what your are looking for.

Maybe when I get my life sorted out and I am ready to pursue something and if your still single of course ...maybe then we can talk if you would be interested. Until then I think I need some things to sort out in my life and I think I really do need more time alone...I dont want to confuse myself or someone else in the meantime.


Take Care!!
XX

My Response:

Hey ..

I hope that you didn't feel like it had to go that way just because we hung out a couple of times.

Either way, I agree, I don't think the chemistry was really there...

All the best!
Rich

Gotta love women these days....:kick: Two freaking dates and I get a novel...:crazy:
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Does anyone care why are you bragging??How is this gonna help other memebers its defintely not inspiration or motivation your bragging

Grow up!!!
 
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dreamx_not_afc said:
Does anyone care why are you bragging??How is this gonna help other memebers its defintely not inspiration or motivation your bragging

Grow up!!!
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This is coming from a dude surfing porn 5 hours a day.....No wonder I only drop by here once a season...:cuss:
 
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This is coming from a dude surfing porn 5 hours a day.....No wonder I only drop by here once a season...:cuss:
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And so me viewing porn makes me a bad person???It just means im not gay I like women so therefore I view,amazing that I have a high impact on your net/interent life by you drop here once a season because of me,hmm wow interesting.
 
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dreamx_not_afc said:
And so me viewing porn makes me a bad person???It just means im not gay I like women so therefore I view,amazing that I have a high impact on your net/interent life by you drop here once a season because of me,hmm wow interesting.
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Watching porn actually MAKES you a bad person. Or, better said, a miserable one. Viewing porn makes you weak. You'll have less inner drive to finding women 'coz u got your porn and your right hand. And it distorts the way you look at women. They're living people, did you know that? I could write so much more about it but it won't change you anyway, so...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jeremy the Wicked said:
Watching porn actually MAKES you a bad person. Or, better said, a miserable one. Viewing porn makes you weak. You'll have less inner drive to finding women 'coz u got your porn and your right hand. And it distorts the way you look at women. They're living people, did you know that? I could write so much more about it but it won't change you anyway, so...
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And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
 
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dreamx_not_afc said:
And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
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What a tool...:kick:
 
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dreamx_not_afc said:
And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
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Oh yeah, really there?
You tard, you just have to find a girl, I don't look at porno, and hmm, I still want sex. Yess, you got to love the analogies you present.
 
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dreamx_not_afc said:
And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
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you probably have a moustache
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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