"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Two Dates and I get this...

K

KingRich

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2005
Messages
33
Reaction score
0
I went out with this broad twice....All going good....Got some good action and all then I get this:

Hey,

I just thought I would email you and let you know the way things are for me right now. I realized this weekend that I'm not mentally ready to move into a new relationship anytime soon. I guess when I went online dating...it was mostly for fun and didnt think I would ever pursue anything. These last few days I think I have realized that I'm not really ready for anything serious yet and to be fair on you I thought I should let you know. I know how you are with people and their baggage and so I just want you to know that I think I do still have some baggage to sort out before I pursue anything with anyone new. Im sorry to do this to you but I figure its better now than later when feelings get involved. I think your a great guy and we definitely had some fun together and I know we only went out a couple of times I think I owe you this...I think you should really know were my mind is at the moment.

Anyway, I thought this was for the best...I wanted to be honest with you!!!
I think you are a nice guy and there are many girls out there Im sure that dont have any baggage and are ready for something new. I hope things work out for you and I hope you find what your are looking for.

Maybe when I get my life sorted out and I am ready to pursue something and if your still single of course ...maybe then we can talk if you would be interested. Until then I think I need some things to sort out in my life and I think I really do need more time alone...I dont want to confuse myself or someone else in the meantime.


Take Care!!
XX

My Response:

Hey ..

I hope that you didn't feel like it had to go that way just because we hung out a couple of times.

Either way, I agree, I don't think the chemistry was really there...

All the best!
Rich

Gotta love women these days....:kick: Two freaking dates and I get a novel...:crazy:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

D

dreamx_not_afc

Banned
Joined
Jul 31, 2006
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
KingRich said:
I went out with this broad twice....All going good....Got some good action and all then I get this:

Hey,

I just thought I would email you and let you know the way things are for me right now. I realized this weekend that I'm not mentally ready to move into a new relationship anytime soon. I guess when I went online dating...it was mostly for fun and didnt think I would ever pursue anything. These last few days I think I have realized that I'm not really ready for anything serious yet and to be fair on you I thought I should let you know. I know how you are with people and their baggage and so I just want you to know that I think I do still have some baggage to sort out before I pursue anything with anyone new. Im sorry to do this to you but I figure its better now than later when feelings get involved. I think your a great guy and we definitely had some fun together and I know we only went out a couple of times I think I owe you this...I think you should really know were my mind is at the moment.

Anyway, I thought this was for the best...I wanted to be honest with you!!!
I think you are a nice guy and there are many girls out there Im sure that dont have any baggage and are ready for something new. I hope things work out for you and I hope you find what your are looking for.

Maybe when I get my life sorted out and I am ready to pursue something and if your still single of course ...maybe then we can talk if you would be interested. Until then I think I need some things to sort out in my life and I think I really do need more time alone...I dont want to confuse myself or someone else in the meantime.


Take Care!!
XX

My Response:

Hey ..

I hope that you didn't feel like it had to go that way just because we hung out a couple of times.

Either way, I agree, I don't think the chemistry was really there...

All the best!
Rich

Gotta love women these days....:kick: Two freaking dates and I get a novel...:crazy:
Click to expand...
Does anyone care why are you bragging??How is this gonna help other memebers its defintely not inspiration or motivation your bragging

Grow up!!!
 
K

KingRich

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2005
Messages
33
Reaction score
0
dreamx_not_afc said:
Does anyone care why are you bragging??How is this gonna help other memebers its defintely not inspiration or motivation your bragging

Grow up!!!
Click to expand...
This is coming from a dude surfing porn 5 hours a day.....No wonder I only drop by here once a season...:cuss:
 
D

dreamx_not_afc

Banned
Joined
Jul 31, 2006
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
KingRich said:
This is coming from a dude surfing porn 5 hours a day.....No wonder I only drop by here once a season...:cuss:
Click to expand...
And so me viewing porn makes me a bad person???It just means im not gay I like women so therefore I view,amazing that I have a high impact on your net/interent life by you drop here once a season because of me,hmm wow interesting.
 
J

Jeremy the Wicked

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2006
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
dreamx_not_afc said:
And so me viewing porn makes me a bad person???It just means im not gay I like women so therefore I view,amazing that I have a high impact on your net/interent life by you drop here once a season because of me,hmm wow interesting.
Click to expand...
Watching porn actually MAKES you a bad person. Or, better said, a miserable one. Viewing porn makes you weak. You'll have less inner drive to finding women 'coz u got your porn and your right hand. And it distorts the way you look at women. They're living people, did you know that? I could write so much more about it but it won't change you anyway, so...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

D

dreamx_not_afc

Banned
Joined
Jul 31, 2006
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
Jeremy the Wicked said:
Watching porn actually MAKES you a bad person. Or, better said, a miserable one. Viewing porn makes you weak. You'll have less inner drive to finding women 'coz u got your porn and your right hand. And it distorts the way you look at women. They're living people, did you know that? I could write so much more about it but it won't change you anyway, so...
Click to expand...
And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
 
K

KingRich

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2005
Messages
33
Reaction score
0
dreamx_not_afc said:
And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
Click to expand...
What a tool...:kick:
 
D

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
dreamx_not_afc said:
And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
Click to expand...
Oh yeah, really there?
You tard, you just have to find a girl, I don't look at porno, and hmm, I still want sex. Yess, you got to love the analogies you present.
 
M

Mitch_Mustain

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2005
Messages
151
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
Springdale, Arkansas
dreamx_not_afc said:
And it makes you a bad person as????That is YOUR OPINION,porn actually makes guy want more sex and therefore makes you want to get a women.
And when did I say women arent living people???Well no duh there living people did you know I have a mom??lol sigh* kids*
Click to expand...
you probably have a moustache
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top