"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Two best friends...

DkurisuJ

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I did a search on similar topics but i couldn't find andy relevant posts.. so here goes:

I met two girls a few days ago, they are like inseperable (best friends). I have never seen one without the other.
However, i kind of like both of them, (altough i like one of them more than the other). They seem to have High interest level, but when they do go out of their way to come and talk to me or sit with me, I can't tell whose idea it is to come over here.

My idea was to ask them both out on seperate dates
(to find out which one matches better) but i'm afraid this kind of thing might blow up in my face since they are such good friends..

Any suggestions from these boards?

P.S. Don't mind my english and it's my first post so don't flame me :D

Thx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This situation could be a no-go or go for the one that has the better "ass"ets.

Becareful, this may become a divide-and-conquer game you'll be playing, that's why it's better to leave them alone.
 

DkurisuJ

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I could understand the idea of going for the one with better (ass)ets,
but wouldn't it mean automatic failure if i leave them both alone.

I'm considering asking both of them (at the same time) to do something with me...
Or would that be a one way trip to getting LJBF.
 

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i would say go for just one man .....


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DkurisuJ

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Could it hurt to make them a bit jealous by sometimes giving more attention to one girl for a few days and then the next times i see them i'd spend more time chatting up the other..
And then finally asking one out...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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