"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DkurisuJ

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I did a search on similar topics but i couldn't find andy relevant posts.. so here goes:

I met two girls a few days ago, they are like inseperable (best friends). I have never seen one without the other.
However, i kind of like both of them, (altough i like one of them more than the other). They seem to have High interest level, but when they do go out of their way to come and talk to me or sit with me, I can't tell whose idea it is to come over here.

My idea was to ask them both out on seperate dates
(to find out which one matches better) but i'm afraid this kind of thing might blow up in my face since they are such good friends..

Any suggestions from these boards?

P.S. Don't mind my english and it's my first post so don't flame me :D

Thx
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This situation could be a no-go or go for the one that has the better "ass"ets.

Becareful, this may become a divide-and-conquer game you'll be playing, that's why it's better to leave them alone.
 

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I could understand the idea of going for the one with better (ass)ets,
but wouldn't it mean automatic failure if i leave them both alone.

I'm considering asking both of them (at the same time) to do something with me...
Or would that be a one way trip to getting LJBF.
 

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i would say go for just one man .....


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DkurisuJ

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Could it hurt to make them a bit jealous by sometimes giving more attention to one girl for a few days and then the next times i see them i'd spend more time chatting up the other..
And then finally asking one out...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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