Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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semag

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thanks for the tip alex.

I'll try that, I've found that I've only started incorporating RP stuff into a few exercises, easing into it to see how i like it (i love it!) and the first set really takes a lot out of me.

I'll bench, and throw on a weight I can get 7-8 on, and it'll go up all me. I rack it on the bottom, lay there, 10 deep breaths, and get it off (with a spot) and then go formore, and only get like 2 by myself.

I think sitting up, taking a few more breaths, stretching out a little more, and kinda "resetting" my brain will help, I'll have to try that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is also why DC recommends straight sets for the first two weeks, this sets your baselines as well.

If you're not sure about a starting weight for an exercise, straight set it, once you've found a weight you can do 8-10 with (to failure) then you're probably there, take this weight or add a little if you feel up to it, then rp it into the ground.

You're definitely not resting enough between sets mate, taking a break also preps the mind for the next set, tricks it into thinking it's a different set instead of just a continuation of the previous one, at least that's how I see it, heh.

Of course, don't hit the other end of the spectrum and rest for more than a minute.

Try it like I say, rack, sit up, count 15 DEEP breaths, lay back, unrack, then hit it hard. You'll get it eventually, don't you worry.
 
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