"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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semag

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thanks for the tip alex.

I'll try that, I've found that I've only started incorporating RP stuff into a few exercises, easing into it to see how i like it (i love it!) and the first set really takes a lot out of me.

I'll bench, and throw on a weight I can get 7-8 on, and it'll go up all me. I rack it on the bottom, lay there, 10 deep breaths, and get it off (with a spot) and then go formore, and only get like 2 by myself.

I think sitting up, taking a few more breaths, stretching out a little more, and kinda "resetting" my brain will help, I'll have to try that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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This is also why DC recommends straight sets for the first two weeks, this sets your baselines as well.

If you're not sure about a starting weight for an exercise, straight set it, once you've found a weight you can do 8-10 with (to failure) then you're probably there, take this weight or add a little if you feel up to it, then rp it into the ground.

You're definitely not resting enough between sets mate, taking a break also preps the mind for the next set, tricks it into thinking it's a different set instead of just a continuation of the previous one, at least that's how I see it, heh.

Of course, don't hit the other end of the spectrum and rest for more than a minute.

Try it like I say, rack, sit up, count 15 DEEP breaths, lay back, unrack, then hit it hard. You'll get it eventually, don't you worry.
 
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