Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TV show - The Player

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Funny..........Can already tell most of those guys need to sign in to this site!

What's up with these guys that are trying to hard already? Kissing, Kino etc.......

The girl is a player, so they have to approach it differently?
What would you do

The first guy that got cut tonite needs some help. Talking bout trying to hard....dam
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah, the other dude (Marvin?) black lawyer, his game was to be a "mystery":cool: he survived :D

Ferderico the guy got cut was too immature, I think he shoulda stick with his original game (being negative) but instead he pulled a 180 and got soft :rolleyes:
 

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Marvin (the lawyer) got put on the chopping block because he COULDN"T CONVEY HIS PERSONALITY.

He might have been incredibly suave, intelligent and an excellent provider but because he COULDN"T CONVEY THOSE QUALITIES about him, he almost got eliminated.

THE ONLY REASON he didn't get chopped was because the other guy was MORE AFC. He was negative, didn't give the model the "emotions" and "good feelings" like the other players were.

If you CANNOT CONVEY what an INCREDIBLE guy that you are, it doesn't matter what you think you are because no one else is going to see those qualities about you.
 

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Originally posted by JT47319
Marvin (the lawyer) got put on the chopping block because he COULDN"T CONVEY HIS PERSONALITY.

He might have been incredibly suave, intelligent and an excellent provider but because he COULDN"T CONVEY THOSE QUALITIES about him, he almost got eliminated.

THE ONLY REASON he didn't get chopped was because the other guy was MORE AFC. He was negative, didn't give the model the "emotions" and "good feelings" like the other players were.

If you CANNOT CONVEY what an INCREDIBLE guy that you are, it doesn't matter what you think you are because no one else is going to see those qualities about you.
BACK UP, PARTNER it's just convo about a TV show :eek: you made some good points and there maybe DJs in the bunch (including Marvin) but according to DJ principles a true DJ would never put himself into '12 guys competing for one girl' situation

I think Marvin know dang well he had to 'convey'. His a successful dude with no shortage of females, he'd be just fine if he got chopped because he didn't get played, he stuck with his game
 

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Originally posted by Mustang
DJs in the bunch (including Marvin) but according to DJ principles a true DJ would never put himself into '12 guys competing for one girl' situation
That may be what a DJ thinks, but a PUA knows better.

A successful PUA knows he can blow out other guys. A PUA knows he can control the frame and lead other men. A PUA knows he can convey his personality above and beyond his competition. A PUA knows that the Game is a competitive extreme sport and he will always be competing with others. A PUA knows that competition makes him better. But most importantly, a PUA knows that hanging in the backgroud, waiting, desperately hoping to be discovered for his inner qualities is the mark of an AFC.

Now, I'll admit, I've never blown up a 12 set, the most I've ever done is a mixed 8 set and I was successful in pulling my target out of her group (despite the incessant AMOGing) and isolate her. But damn, what a FUCKING RUSH THAT WAS! :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by JT47319
Now, I'll admit, I've never blown up a 12 set, the most I've ever done is a mixed 8 set and I was successful in pulling my target out of her group (despite the incessant AMOGing) and isolate her. But damn, what a FUCKING RUSH THAT WAS! :D
Tell me your game.

(I don't mean the text book references, what actually happen?)
 

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Originally posted by Mustang
Tell me your game.

(I don't mean the text book references, what actually happen?)
My bad, it was a mixed 6set. The 8set was all girls. But I bumped up my FR "THIS is how you AMOG!" The 8set is described in the FR "Carissa Explains it all"
 

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Originally posted by JT47319
My bad, it was a mixed 6set. The 8set was all girls. But I bumped up my FR "THIS is how you AMOG!" The 8set is described in the FR "Carissa Explains it all"
Good read, but i woulda shut you down early (well it depends, I'd have to feel the situation, check your finesse - but sometimes I have to shut down to respect the player, but the game sucks) ;)

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

peace
 
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