"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Turning girls down for sex

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even if u want to fvck her, is pulling away from a girl when she obviously wants it, a good move, or are most of the guys here jumping at any opportunity to get pu$$y?

I've never turned a girl down i was interested in, but an article i read got me thinking about the possible advantages of pulling this seemingly dumbass move
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scorched

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I've done it before, but it was a girl that rates around a 5, 6 if you cross your eyes... HAHAHA
It left her REALLY wanting me... And the ball deep in my court.
A few days later I got head for around 30 minutes from her, then rewarded her with sex.

I now apply this to kissing, I act like I am going to kiss the girl and then pull back. And even tell her "say please and I'll kiss you..." I teased the girl for 45 minutes and she finally said please.

I will admit... I have not turned down sex with a beautiful girl... yet.. :)
But when I do, it will be a very smart move on my part...
 

ScrewIt

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It works. it shows you're not desperate for it, and if the girl really wants you she'll make another attempt for it. Like inviting you over to her place, etc.
I'd say this equally relates to showing a girl attention/kissing her. Less is more, but dont hold out too long or she'll move on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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