Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Turning girls down for sex

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even if u want to fvck her, is pulling away from a girl when she obviously wants it, a good move, or are most of the guys here jumping at any opportunity to get pu$$y?

I've never turned a girl down i was interested in, but an article i read got me thinking about the possible advantages of pulling this seemingly dumbass move
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scorched

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I've done it before, but it was a girl that rates around a 5, 6 if you cross your eyes... HAHAHA
It left her REALLY wanting me... And the ball deep in my court.
A few days later I got head for around 30 minutes from her, then rewarded her with sex.

I now apply this to kissing, I act like I am going to kiss the girl and then pull back. And even tell her "say please and I'll kiss you..." I teased the girl for 45 minutes and she finally said please.

I will admit... I have not turned down sex with a beautiful girl... yet.. :)
But when I do, it will be a very smart move on my part...
 

ScrewIt

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It works. it shows you're not desperate for it, and if the girl really wants you she'll make another attempt for it. Like inviting you over to her place, etc.
I'd say this equally relates to showing a girl attention/kissing her. Less is more, but dont hold out too long or she'll move on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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