Turning girl friend into girlfriend...

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So I hung around with this girl on a school trip as friends. I treated her just like a friend, nothing more. We end up kissing and making out anyway, then we come back to school and I decide "nah, I'm not that into her, I'll tell her we should just be friends".
Now, I've decided she might be worth hanging out with one on one to see how it goes. Only problem is she seems to be disinterested. Before, she was constantly around me, laughing at every joke, being totally obsessed with me. She stopped doing all the things she was doing before - waiting to walk from one class to the next with me, laughing at just about everything I'd say, talking to me all the time.

So my question is, should I do the standard "ignore her 'till she shows she's interested", or should I make the first move seeing as I already shut her down a couple of times?

 

[milrenkb]

So I hung around with this girl on a school trip as friends. I treated her just like a friend, nothing more. We end up kissing and making out anyway, then we come back to school and I decide "nah, I'm not that into her, I'll tell her we should just be friends".
Now, I've decided she might be worth hanging out with one on one to see how it goes. Only problem is she seems to be disinterested. \

Thats all I need to hear. Look if she 'seems' disintrested don't bother yourself with her. You got better things to do with your time. Move on to the next one and don't become an Average Frustrated Chump or AFC.

 

[brucevangeorge]

Do a search. This has been covered at least 90+ times on various threads that are titled similarly. Also look through the archives. There is alot of good stuff especially on this.