"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I hung around with this girl on a school trip as friends. I treated her just like a friend, nothing more. We end up kissing and making out anyway, then we come back to school and I decide "nah, I'm not that into her, I'll tell her we should just be friends".
Now, I've decided she might be worth hanging out with one on one to see how it goes. Only problem is she seems to be disinterested. Before, she was constantly around me, laughing at every joke, being totally obsessed with me. She stopped doing all the things she was doing before - waiting to walk from one class to the next with me, laughing at just about everything I'd say, talking to me all the time.

So my question is, should I do the standard "ignore her 'till she shows she's interested", or should I make the first move seeing as I already shut her down a couple of times?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I hung around with this girl on a school trip as friends. I treated her just like a friend, nothing more. We end up kissing and making out anyway, then we come back to school and I decide "nah, I'm not that into her, I'll tell her we should just be friends".
Now, I've decided she might be worth hanging out with one on one to see how it goes. Only problem is she seems to be disinterested. \
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Thats all I need to hear. Look if she 'seems' disintrested don't bother yourself with her. You got better things to do with your time. Move on to the next one and don't become an Average Frustrated Chump or AFC.
 
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Do a search. This has been covered at least 90+ times on various threads that are titled similarly. Also look through the archives. There is alot of good stuff especially on this.
 
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