"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ight guys this is my first time postin, but i have been reading alot of yalls stuff- i subscribed to the email and got the one about turning ur friend into a hookup, but i accidentally delted it, and comin up is homecomin and im goin alone wiht this hott girl who is jsut a friend, she doesnt like me and i act as if though i dont like her, i mean i dont, but i want to hooku pwith her, any suggestions
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You just said she doesn't like you. If you want to have the chance of her liking you someday in the future you need to stop doing friend things with her. The more you do with her as a friend the less chance you have of ever having sex with her.
 

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yeah ok, but we never hangout, i mean like i clal her once every two weeks or somethin and we never hangout ever really, we just call each other friends and talk when we are at the same place, so how about hten
 

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Why do you call her once every two weeks? I think you are missing the point.
 

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Get her really horny!!

LOOK IN THE DJ BIBLE UNDER CLUB!!! BEATIFUL description.

anyways whats with homecoming, NO ONE CARES WHO YOU GO WITH!!!!

I'll will be dancing with her anyways. :crackup: :crackup:

Late Chulo
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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yeah i know, but she said she wanted to go out before just one on one, like to eat, and we normally go in groups, or she said she dindt mind
 

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Originally posted by requested
ight guys this is my first time postin, but i have been reading alot of yalls stuff- i subscribed to the email and got the one about turning ur friend into a hookup, but i accidentally delted it, and comin up is homecomin and im goin alone wiht this hott girl who is jsut a friend, she doesnt like me and i act as if though i dont like her, i mean i dont, but i want to hooku pwith her, any suggestions
read the link I put in my Signature...
 
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