"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ight guys this is my first time postin, but i have been reading alot of yalls stuff- i subscribed to the email and got the one about turning ur friend into a hookup, but i accidentally delted it, and comin up is homecomin and im goin alone wiht this hott girl who is jsut a friend, she doesnt like me and i act as if though i dont like her, i mean i dont, but i want to hooku pwith her, any suggestions
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You just said she doesn't like you. If you want to have the chance of her liking you someday in the future you need to stop doing friend things with her. The more you do with her as a friend the less chance you have of ever having sex with her.
 

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yeah ok, but we never hangout, i mean like i clal her once every two weeks or somethin and we never hangout ever really, we just call each other friends and talk when we are at the same place, so how about hten
 

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Why do you call her once every two weeks? I think you are missing the point.
 

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Get her really horny!!

LOOK IN THE DJ BIBLE UNDER CLUB!!! BEATIFUL description.

anyways whats with homecoming, NO ONE CARES WHO YOU GO WITH!!!!

I'll will be dancing with her anyways. :crackup: :crackup:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah i know, but she said she wanted to go out before just one on one, like to eat, and we normally go in groups, or she said she dindt mind
 

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Originally posted by requested
ight guys this is my first time postin, but i have been reading alot of yalls stuff- i subscribed to the email and got the one about turning ur friend into a hookup, but i accidentally delted it, and comin up is homecomin and im goin alone wiht this hott girl who is jsut a friend, she doesnt like me and i act as if though i dont like her, i mean i dont, but i want to hooku pwith her, any suggestions
read the link I put in my Signature...
 
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