"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Turned the tables on the dumper last night

Soflobro#3

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Appears we have some updates.

I went out of town for the weekend for work, and she kept watching all my Instagram stories, even though she was at a halloween party.

Then last night I posted something on my Instagram story, and she replied "Loooooooove this" and has watched my stories since.

Okay, now what.
Wait longer. She'll eventually get bored or chase. To want her to chase you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Soflobro#3

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Theres degrees of it.
It's completely subjective though. Some people deserve getting taken advantage of. Like with my ex, the lesson she should take from me is dont be such a abrasive and disrespectful b1tch to someone you're sharing your stuff with and expect to be appreciated. Now she's like that with every one but i didn't give a fvck.

From her perspective she thinks I just used her. It's not that simple. The only thing i did wrong was not use that as an opportunity to make my life better and then leave her. I fell into a cycle of self destructive behaviors and she would antagonize me further. She wasn't naive and she made her choices. If i could go back id stay very emotionally distant from her, snd save as much money as i could, and just disappear. All at her expense.

Now is this an immoral way to think? I would totally get her hooked on me even more than she was before, that way in the future, if i needed something i could just call her up.
 

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Live update, she just texted me one of her current favorite artists and told me to check out a few songs... titles like "Honey" "I Need It" "U Make Me Feel"
 
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