"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Turned her off?

I

itishe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2005
Messages
925
Reaction score
2
Alright guys got a quick question for you.

I liked this girl for a while (sort of after I got the hint she liked me kind of opened my eyes toward her). Anywho since it wasn't really going anywhere since neither of us have a license but my friend does I'd go riding around with my friend and bring other girls along. One of the girls happened to be one of her better friends, and often we would ask to see her jugs (you know typical teenager stuff).

I have a feeling this friend told the one I liked about our desire to see her small knockers and I feel that this turned the girl I like off, maybe because she thinks I like the other girl simply because I want to see her boobs. Even when I talked to her she'd ask me questions like am I going after *Jane* or *Lucia* (fake names), but I simply told her I wasn't going after her and asked her, "are you the town match maker now?"

Do you think I ruined it? I have a feeling I did, but it wasn't like we had something going so I don't see why I can't see boobies.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

T

the_reader

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2005
Messages
45
Reaction score
0
Age
41
lol ahh i remember highschool hahaha, we had the nice tit for tat rule, what did i doo now.. can't remember . Oh! yes , she put her arm around me and squeezed my chest, i said if she did it again I'd have to return the favour.. and wala! public fondling, right infront of her friends!:D

sooo moral of the story? don't ask, just state your intentions.. or better yet, just do
 
I

itishe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2005
Messages
925
Reaction score
2
Thanks, but the thing is she still punches me and **** (playful/flirty stuff). But it doesn't go much farther than that, it's just she started acting weird (as in didn't talk to me AS much as she did, etc.) after her best friend started going on rides with us.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top