"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Turned her off?

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Alright guys got a quick question for you.

I liked this girl for a while (sort of after I got the hint she liked me kind of opened my eyes toward her). Anywho since it wasn't really going anywhere since neither of us have a license but my friend does I'd go riding around with my friend and bring other girls along. One of the girls happened to be one of her better friends, and often we would ask to see her jugs (you know typical teenager stuff).

I have a feeling this friend told the one I liked about our desire to see her small knockers and I feel that this turned the girl I like off, maybe because she thinks I like the other girl simply because I want to see her boobs. Even when I talked to her she'd ask me questions like am I going after *Jane* or *Lucia* (fake names), but I simply told her I wasn't going after her and asked her, "are you the town match maker now?"

Do you think I ruined it? I have a feeling I did, but it wasn't like we had something going so I don't see why I can't see boobies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol ahh i remember highschool hahaha, we had the nice tit for tat rule, what did i doo now.. can't remember . Oh! yes , she put her arm around me and squeezed my chest, i said if she did it again I'd have to return the favour.. and wala! public fondling, right infront of her friends!:D

sooo moral of the story? don't ask, just state your intentions.. or better yet, just do
 
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Thanks, but the thing is she still punches me and **** (playful/flirty stuff). But it doesn't go much farther than that, it's just she started acting weird (as in didn't talk to me AS much as she did, etc.) after her best friend started going on rides with us.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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