"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wildchild

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Right these are my problems.

1) a girl was attracted to me i was attracted to her we kissed at some partys but went no futher

2) i told her i really liked her n shes beautiful or whatever ... i think i screwed up

3)after that we went for a date n we kissed again but nothing that serious

the problem is i think she lost interest cos i told her she was so amazing now i know because of this website i did the wrong thing. is there anything i could do to turn this around and correct my mistakes. the mistakes were

1) i complimented her too much
2) i told her i really like her
3) i didnt make sweet love to her

thankyou
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HuuBinh

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my best advice to u is do your own things right now, date more, have girls hang around you more and make sure she knows it, even though she has lost a substantial amount of interest in you, but if you follow this advise, she'll be wondering what was it about you that she was missing before.
 

Jay_VCU

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You have to immediately up the level physically. You have to use a lot of kino. This has to start the next time you see her. You can't concentrate on the past. The same thing happened with me. I doused this girl with compliments before going to this site. Now I know better. The change will seem really drastic to her. It'll knock her off guard a little.
 

Starman

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Act like you were drunk..tell other guys and girls in front of her how much you think they are amazing..and cool..so that she will think you tell that to EVERYBODY..

You need to try and make her get off her pedestal you put her on.

Other than that just chill maybe she is just busy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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