tunnel vission and should i ask for her number again

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I have this problem, whenever im trying to work on a girl. I will not really feel the ambition to pursue other chicks, but sometimes will. I need some help with this. Its like i start daydreaming or something...ya i know its below AFC. Anyways, Ive began building rappoort with this one chick, and i recently got her phone number, indirectly, as us and a few other classm8s had a study session. My main question is, should i ask for her number again? as it is more of a direct invitation to call her. I make her laugh pretty easily, as she is really outgoing. I tried kino one time(still not used to it so soon) and she didnt really respond, just ignored. Anyways, I've been trying to raise her interest, by kinda ignoring her, for example we were walking to her car, and i pretended she wasnt their and started talkin to my m8(is this a method for attention-*****s). Anyways, the other day we were leaving class. I have another class afterwards, and i asked her to drive me to the other side of the campus for my next class. She did, but thats one of my problems, i can talk to any chick anywhere as long as we are doing the same thing school/work/in line. But just cant build up the confidence to ask them out. I think im just afraid of the rejection. Just lookin for some mentoring with her, and with my problems. I ended up not asking her anywhere, because i kinda get this vibe like she is too busy, and doesnt have time for anything. Maybe i'll ask her for some tea or something next time we meet.

 

[chili kat]

What horrible thing will happen if she rejects you?

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

because lecture and classes would be much more uncomfortable

 

[chili kat]

That's not so horrible.

Personally, I look at the whole rejection feeling as a healthy male instinct. Women, it seems, are almost always more inclined to daydream about possibilities in romance. They come out of it wanting this in a man and that in a man. And in many cases, it goes just slightly beyond the realism of what almost most men really are.

You know, it's almost like women are programmed to conjure up an image that can't be had, and make you (us) feel bad when they don't get it.

Just don't worry about it.

That uncomfortable feeling is just guilt of not being able to do what most men can't (or just wont) do.

It's just not something you need to worry about. Women who reject so readily will end up on internet personals long after they have lost the figure, lust and persona .... and demand a prince.

Roll through it.

 

[NRM]

If the risk isn't rejection. The goal isn't a relationship.