"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Ttyl"?

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I was talking to a girl over facebook chat and after like half an hour she told me that she needed to go and that she would talk to me later - it was around midnight btw. When someone says they will ttyl how long should you wait before talking to them? When i talked to her she had long responses and kept the convo going for quite a while, where she could have easily ended the conversation or said not much.

That girl rarely has fb chat on (practically never) but the next day she was on quite often. I waited until the day after that before i talked to her again. She took a few minutes to respond and then said she was busy with something and once again she would talk to me later, i looked on her profile and she had actually told someone else that she was doing the thing she said she was busy with but she was still commenting on stuff occasionally so im not sure if she was just using that as an excuse = S.

Did i talk to her too soon, was she just being nice in the first place and didnt actually want to talk to me later or does what she said the second time not matter and i should just try again later? I do go to school with her and my previous thread was about her (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182381), i dont have school for 3 weeks though and as i explained in that thread i dont often get the chance to talk to her at school anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NorwegianDJ

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Overanalyzing. It's more about how often you talk to her, not when. It's all guidelines anyway.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
Overanalyzing. It's more about how often you talk to her, not when. It's all guidelines anyway.
Thought i might have been, how often is too much then? I want to talk to her often but dont want to seem to creepy, im afraid i wont realise if im being creepy until too late lol.

Im planning on asking for her number soon so i can text and maybe call her, if i ask her that it will atleast give her an oppurtunity to make up some excuse if she really dislikes me and i wont waste any more time.
 

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Lets say once every 3 days then. Rules are made to be broken anyways.
Just have an aim in mind. ie meetup, increase attraction then meet up. And no inaction.
 
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