"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*tsk *tsk how to go about this

LayedBack

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Ok here the thing, got a girl, had my sites set on her for a long time, i swooped and got her to go out with me, shez now my gf and we're both quite happy, but naturally even thought i'm going out with her its good to keep my options open. So my problem is this "is it too dangerous to keep a girl or 2 as a close freind while going steady with another girl?" oh and hey i'm new to the board, my sn says all you need to know about me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well, if you're being exclusive...it depends on whether "close friends" actually means "fvck buddies" wouldn't it?

Personally, I think it's fvcked up to cheat on a steady girlfriend. If you don't like her enough to fvck around on her, then save you both the grief and break up.

On the other hand, it's perfectly fine to have girls as just friends. I have plenty. They're no different than male friends.
 

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Originally posted by Drowning
Well, if you're being exclusive...it depends on whether "close friends" actually means "fvck buddies" wouldn't it?

Personally, I think it's fvcked up to cheat on a steady girlfriend. If you don't like her enough to fvck around on her, then save you both the grief and break up.

On the other hand, it's perfectly fine to have girls as just friends. I have plenty. They're no different than male friends.


i agree with every word of this...
 

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Have platonic friends, just don't get too flirtatious and don't f___ them.
 

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
Have platonic friends, just don't get too flirtatious and don't f___ them.
thx for the info and i wouldn't cheat on her, thats just not the way to ever go about anything in my opinion, ps i'm15yrs old its highly doubtful i'd be F__ing anyone
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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