You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, you go around and try them on until you find the size that fits you best. This is why most stores have "dressing rooms". If it doesn't fit, it doesn't fit. Short of getting it altered, which is a little extreme for a T-shirt, there isn't anything you can do about beside not buying it and looking somewhere else. Finito.
im not short at all, unless 5'9 is short to you.Originally posted by Alpine
OK so you're a short arse, just admit it.
Make a mental note when chatting up girls to ask them whether they can sow.
Once you've found a Seamstress, bone her, even if she's ugly. Then get her to dart and shorten all your fav. T shirts.
Then dump her.
In my day you just used to tuck 'em in.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wife beaters are money at pool parties. But I won't wear one around town, looks kinda tackyOriginally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Are you kidding?
Summer is coming buy a ton of wife beaters like me!!