“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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She 'must' come back, you 'wouldn't live wihout her?' Your are just depressing yourself now, snap out of it.DGboy23 said:Man, she must come back.. I wouldn't live without her. When is the best time to court her again? Would that be a good idea? Just to prove how much I love her..
By the way, do you think she'll come back?
You need to forget trying to court her or win her back, that's just going to get you anxious (more than you already are).
Right now, you need to work on getting her 'out of your mind', ADJUST to the situatiion as it is NOW. Get up from your desk and go talk to some people, socialize some, talk to some girls (but not about your girl!).
To be honest, I was the one who was in control she just got fed up to what I did.. Man, she is my life and I can't live without her..WhAcKeD! said:Forget about her. It seems to me the focus in your life is in the wrong place. I think you need to take this time to find out who you really are and learn more about yourself.
By the way you type it sounds like you have been caged this whole time, and now you have finally been let out. You really want to go back to that? It obviously sounds like she was the one in control of the relationship.
Oh yeah, and god had nothing to do with giving you the girl or taking her away, that was YOUR own doing. I remember when I was a huge ass AFC and I would say that same crap, my how things have changed...
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Yes, you CAN live without her, it just feels like you can't.DGboy23 said:To be honest, I was the one who was in control she just got fed up to what I did.. Man, she is my life and I can't live without her..
Food and Water are the only two things you can't live without!!
i'm sorry man but I'm in the office right now and they've blocked Yahoo Messenger. I can try to contact you tomorrow when I'm at home..DGboy23 said:Man, she must come back.. I wouldn't live without her. When is the best time to court her again? Would that be a good idea? Just to prove how much I love her..
By the way, do you think she'll come back?
Hi King's royalty, can you answer my question above? If its not too much.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kings_royalty said:Yes, you CAN live without her, it just feels like you can't.
Food and Water are the only two things you can't live without!!
hahaha. That put a smurk on my face.. But honestly man.. Would it be a good idea to court her again? When would it be?
Man, Ive been hurt a lot of times now that is why I don't want to lose her cause this time around, it is my fault. I don't want to get her out of my mind, I'm sorry but I'm really in love with her.. And I don't want any other girl cause I've been there done that. You know that kind of stuff..Kings_royalty said:She 'must' come back, you 'wouldn't live wihout her?' Your are just depressing yourself now, snap out of it.
You need to forget trying to court her or win her back, that's just going to get you anxious (more than you already are).
Right now, you need to work on getting her 'out of your mind', ADJUST to the situatiion as it is NOW. Get up from your desk and go talk to some people, socialize some, talk to some girls (but not about your girl!).
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Good, that's a start!
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Why would you want to court someone that doesn't want to be with you right now (maybe never). Think about it.
I would court her IF she started to show 'some' interest again, MAYBE.
Kings_royalty said:Would it be a good idea to court her again?
Why would you want to court someone that doesn't want to be with you right now (maybe never). Think about it.
I would court her IF she started to show 'some' interest again, MAYBE.
IF she showed signs of interest, then that's the time that I'll court her again? Why maybe? I'm sorry if I ask alot of questions. I just need advice from someone
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Then you will be hurting for a while bro. You are just setting yourself up to 'hurt' some more.
You better hope she never finds out how hurt you are because she will use that bit of information to fvck with you.
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Actually she already knows that I'm that hurt.. And she knew even before I talked to her about what happened.. It's ok to get hurt man, because I really deserve it.. I'd give up anything just to be with her again..Kings_royalty said:don't want to get her out of my mind,
Then you will be hurting for a while bro. You are just setting yourself up to 'hurt' some more.
You better hope she never finds out how hurt you are because she will use that bit of information to fvck with you.
DGboy23 said:Actually she already knows that I'm that hurt.. And she knew even before I talked to her about what happened.. It's ok to get hurt man, because I really deserve it.. I'd give up anything just to be with her again..
What about in terms of giving her time? How much time should I give her?
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DGboy23 said:Actually she already knows that I'm that hurt.. And she knew even before I talked to her about what happened.. It's ok to get hurt man, because I really deserve it.. I'd give up anything just to be with her again..
It sounds like you want to inflict pain on yourself out of guilt. I can't help you with that bro, sorry.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Time to do what? Are you on a time schedule or something? What are your intentions.DGboy23 said:What about in terms of giving her time? How much time should I give her?
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Hey there man.. I've talked to her in person last night. She told me she doesn't love me anymore... Infront of me.. but I never cried coz I know deep inside, she still loves me and she is only mad because of what I did.. Anger is controlling what she is feeling so I asked a favor from her.. I asked if she could think about it again about giving me another chance... Just use your heart and your mind, but put emphasis on using your heart coz I know You still love me... Don't forget to pray as well coz I know God will give an answer, just don't think of the answer, let God answer it...Kings_royalty said:Time to do what? Are you on a time schedule or something? What are your intentions.
I love her man, and I'll be continuing to fight for what I believe in.. And that is because I love her so much.. I love her too much to let go.. So I'll court her again, even it means getting hurt.. What's the difference, I'm hurt now.. Now I'm hurt and not fighting, after sometime I'm still hurt but I'll continue fighting.. She learned to love me before, She'll learn to love me again...
It's over. Walk away. Keep reading that preceding two sentences over and over until you GET IT. If you have to spend the next hours doing just that, by all means do. It'll be time well spent.She mentioned that the love that she is feeling right now is not the same as before that is why it's unfair for her to still continue the relationship with me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.