"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Trying to start a fightclub/Mens networking group is tough:)

eli77

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God i miss the nineties trying to start a back yard fight club .Or networking group is tough any of you apart of a guys or mens caveman /fightclub /networking event?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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plumber

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what's your age and how are you going about trying to do this? I think its probably different for a 19 years old, vs a 30, 50, 60 years old.

Issues are how to meet someone and get them to trust you enough and also that they want to do the same.
 

davidsonj73

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God i miss the nineties trying to start a back yard fight club .Or networking group is tough any of you apart of a guys or mens caveman /fightclub /networking event?
Do you mean for backyard wrestling?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BillyPilgrim

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The first rule of the Ideas In Eli's Head is that you don't talk about the Ideas In Eli's Head.
 
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