"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OddManOut85

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everytime i go out,whether its to work,shopping,or do some errands,i always see all sorts of beautiful women period.7s,9s,10s,etc.its like i see them,and i just cant talk to them.well in work its different cause my job is heavily focused on customer service.and i talk to several beautiful women on a daily basis.im trying to take that as a good practice.im almost 21,like in less than a week,so that means i can go out to bars and clubs more.like thats the grand irony in my life,i have this job that like puts me in contact with all sorts of beautiful women,yet i cant really ask them out cause i think its against policy plus risk of getting reported/written up.idk why i dont.i see some other guys doing it.and nothing happens.oh well.i guess i need increase in cofidence? another thing is,apart from well,not being the best with girls,is not having ever really been in any sort of ltr.is that bad? does that turn women off? its like,i go out,i see all these people together,and its like why not me? why dont i have that? how does it happen etc? i guess it comes from well,not trying that much.not being in school has part to do with it as well.but for me,thats another thing all together.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm

this is a great oppertunity for you.. my first customer based job helped me get some GAME... try this...
"Next time you are talking to a attaractive chika... ask her about a ring on her hand.... and then when she shows it to you... hold her finger and pretend to examin her ring... and be funny if you can..... and fcuk management... they will hate on you anyways... get the number and be as coocky and funny as you can... it helps if have a cool job too.. i used to be a photographer...
 

OddManOut85

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i like that ring thing.but how do you do it without coming off as creepy?
 
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