Trying to make eye contact, but the girls won't look at me!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Deep Dark Steel

Don Juan

Dec 13, 2004

Wait wait wait the arrogant self-indulgent bit is more than over the top. You need to get a reality check, I never told him to copy my style and had you not been reading far more into what I was saying than what was actually said you would have realized that. I told him to go for something to garnish attention. The easiest way to get people to look at you is to give them something to look at. I was giving him a SUGGESTION. That is what forums are for right? SUGGESTIONS? The nerve....and you dare to call me arrogant....

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.