So I haven't had a girlfriend since February though I've had sex. I been trying to remain single but I feeling a little down. I know my ex who got me locked up has a boyfriend now I've been so tempted to go to her Facebook profile or tell her I miss her but I've been holding strong. Have not messaged her 0 peaks at her Facebook. I have seen her on Pof because she viewed me but I deleted that account. All I've been doing is working out as a hobby I will add meditation and find other hobbies. Bottom line is I'm feeling depressed as hell I miss affection I miss regular sex I miss kissing as but I don't miss fights being broke kissing as etc.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Trying to hold Strong
- Thread starter bigwuz
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Spin more plates.
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What did she get you locked up for? Any domestic related stuff? The spin plates thing may sound harsh but it's true. No ones going to knock on your door and profess their undying love for your. You're going to have to get back on it and ride into the next cathouse. Saddle up.
Tictac
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The word "trying" simply gives you advance permission to fail.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Understand that the reason she fell out of love with you is that she lost respect for you. Going back and begging her to take you back will not help the root cause of your break-up. When women leave men, it's because she no longer loves him... respect is what keeps a woman in love with you... no respect = no love.
Walk away and never look back, start dating other women, you are not going to feel like hitting up other women, but you have to do this.
Walk away and never look back, start dating other women, you are not going to feel like hitting up other women, but you have to do this.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This I do think she lost mad respect for me I was jobless for a little bit and just let myself go and I stopped talking to females which kept on her on her toes no I really don't want to talk to anyone else or even try I want to get myself together but me n this girl have a daughter together. I guess I need a little more time to focus on myself. Anyway I haven't failed and I barely talk about her.
You need to learn to be happy without women. I've been single for a while and I had to learn. Never go back to an ex. She is an ex for a reason. The holidays can make people feel more lonely then usual, so that could have something to do with it. Just stay strong.
Well it was a domestic thing she said I got her I was like did I??? They gave me 6 months because I went to trial and lost. Anyway that's all besides the point. I've been trying to get into better shape and been lifting weights walking everyday and trying to eat a little better. Think I'll start up Brazilian jiujitsu to keep me busy.