Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trying to get to the girls

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Today in the subway, I saw 2 little hotties, aged 14/15. They're gonna be very desired by everyone soon.

Out of nowhere, this scenario appeared in my head:

I, aged 20, some girls my age and some 14-15 y.o. girls are in a camp for a few days. The younger girls would really like to have some kind of romantic relationship with me, but they realize it's impossible beacuse I am "chasing" / trying to hook up with a girl of my age.

The thought of me being this desiring guy trying to hook up with one of the girls seemed so disgusting, groce, embarassing and however you may call it.

Then I think about the other option: I am doing my own thing, not bothering about the girls, and this makes me desirable. It's the girls trying to get to me, not the other way around. That seemed so cool, fellas!

Something changed inside me and I can only hope it will last. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ummm.....Are you in the US?

If you are, and you are 20, I'd highly advise staying away from 14yr olds.
 
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in some states and countries there's a 5-6 year age range which you can sleep with girls younger than you. so if he's 20 and there's a 5 year range, he could be banging 15 year olds... not sure why he'd want to though.. they are horrible in the bedroom.

if you are so desperate for sex, just pick up a woman in her 30s. women in their 30s are totally desperate and would even pay for sex with a young guy like you..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So wait, it makes you feel good that 14/15 year olds are chasing you....

ok..

YOU DA MAN!

No seriously though, don't get caught up in that stuff. Young girls are always fvcked up in the head.
 
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Haha! You all got that wrong :)

1) The focus was not on the little girls, but on the girls my age and me trying to hook up with one of them. Me TRYING to win a girl over seems a bad idea. You guys may be applying tactics and all that to convince a woman to get into a relationship with you. For some time now, I am getting into the (let's call it) Pook mentality where I am minding my own business and the girls are giving me the attention. Not picking up girls, but the other way around, is my idea.

2) The presence of the 14 year olds in my story allowed me to see myself as if I were a spectator. Funny thing, I know, but it doesn't mean I am desperate or sarging for 14 year olds, lol :D

Thanks for the laughs!


As a side note: don't you hide the fact that, starting at the age of ~15, many girls have sex appeal.


I could explain better if you guys understood romanian.
 
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Metaphysical said:
in some states and countries there's a 5-6 year age range which you can sleep with girls younger than you. so if he's 20 and there's a 5 year range, he could be banging 15 year olds... not sure why he'd want to though.. they are horrible in the bedroom.

if you are so desperate for sex, just pick up a woman in her 30s. women in their 30s are totally desperate and would even pay for sex with a young guy like you..
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is that really true?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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surfdog said:
you make me sick:eek:
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What? You want that to happen to you, too? :crazy:
 
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