"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trying to get to the girls

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Today in the subway, I saw 2 little hotties, aged 14/15. They're gonna be very desired by everyone soon.

Out of nowhere, this scenario appeared in my head:

I, aged 20, some girls my age and some 14-15 y.o. girls are in a camp for a few days. The younger girls would really like to have some kind of romantic relationship with me, but they realize it's impossible beacuse I am "chasing" / trying to hook up with a girl of my age.

The thought of me being this desiring guy trying to hook up with one of the girls seemed so disgusting, groce, embarassing and however you may call it.

Then I think about the other option: I am doing my own thing, not bothering about the girls, and this makes me desirable. It's the girls trying to get to me, not the other way around. That seemed so cool, fellas!

Something changed inside me and I can only hope it will last. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ummm.....Are you in the US?

If you are, and you are 20, I'd highly advise staying away from 14yr olds.
 

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in some states and countries there's a 5-6 year age range which you can sleep with girls younger than you. so if he's 20 and there's a 5 year range, he could be banging 15 year olds... not sure why he'd want to though.. they are horrible in the bedroom.

if you are so desperate for sex, just pick up a woman in her 30s. women in their 30s are totally desperate and would even pay for sex with a young guy like you..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So wait, it makes you feel good that 14/15 year olds are chasing you....

ok..

YOU DA MAN!

No seriously though, don't get caught up in that stuff. Young girls are always fvcked up in the head.
 

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Haha! You all got that wrong :)

1) The focus was not on the little girls, but on the girls my age and me trying to hook up with one of them. Me TRYING to win a girl over seems a bad idea. You guys may be applying tactics and all that to convince a woman to get into a relationship with you. For some time now, I am getting into the (let's call it) Pook mentality where I am minding my own business and the girls are giving me the attention. Not picking up girls, but the other way around, is my idea.

2) The presence of the 14 year olds in my story allowed me to see myself as if I were a spectator. Funny thing, I know, but it doesn't mean I am desperate or sarging for 14 year olds, lol :D

Thanks for the laughs!


As a side note: don't you hide the fact that, starting at the age of ~15, many girls have sex appeal.


I could explain better if you guys understood romanian.
 

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Metaphysical said:
in some states and countries there's a 5-6 year age range which you can sleep with girls younger than you. so if he's 20 and there's a 5 year range, he could be banging 15 year olds... not sure why he'd want to though.. they are horrible in the bedroom.

if you are so desperate for sex, just pick up a woman in her 30s. women in their 30s are totally desperate and would even pay for sex with a young guy like you..
is that really true?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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surfdog said:
you make me sick:eek:
What? You want that to happen to you, too? :crazy:
 
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