"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Today in the subway, I saw 2 little hotties, aged 14/15. They're gonna be very desired by everyone soon.

Out of nowhere, this scenario appeared in my head:

I, aged 20, some girls my age and some 14-15 y.o. girls are in a camp for a few days. The younger girls would really like to have some kind of romantic relationship with me, but they realize it's impossible beacuse I am "chasing" / trying to hook up with a girl of my age.

The thought of me being this desiring guy trying to hook up with one of the girls seemed so disgusting, groce, embarassing and however you may call it.

Then I think about the other option: I am doing my own thing, not bothering about the girls, and this makes me desirable. It's the girls trying to get to me, not the other way around. That seemed so cool, fellas!

Something changed inside me and I can only hope it will last. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ummm.....Are you in the US?

If you are, and you are 20, I'd highly advise staying away from 14yr olds.
 
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in some states and countries there's a 5-6 year age range which you can sleep with girls younger than you. so if he's 20 and there's a 5 year range, he could be banging 15 year olds... not sure why he'd want to though.. they are horrible in the bedroom.

if you are so desperate for sex, just pick up a woman in her 30s. women in their 30s are totally desperate and would even pay for sex with a young guy like you..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So wait, it makes you feel good that 14/15 year olds are chasing you....

ok..

YOU DA MAN!

No seriously though, don't get caught up in that stuff. Young girls are always fvcked up in the head.
 
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Haha! You all got that wrong :)

1) The focus was not on the little girls, but on the girls my age and me trying to hook up with one of them. Me TRYING to win a girl over seems a bad idea. You guys may be applying tactics and all that to convince a woman to get into a relationship with you. For some time now, I am getting into the (let's call it) Pook mentality where I am minding my own business and the girls are giving me the attention. Not picking up girls, but the other way around, is my idea.

2) The presence of the 14 year olds in my story allowed me to see myself as if I were a spectator. Funny thing, I know, but it doesn't mean I am desperate or sarging for 14 year olds, lol :D

Thanks for the laughs!


As a side note: don't you hide the fact that, starting at the age of ~15, many girls have sex appeal.


I could explain better if you guys understood romanian.
 
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Metaphysical said:
in some states and countries there's a 5-6 year age range which you can sleep with girls younger than you. so if he's 20 and there's a 5 year range, he could be banging 15 year olds... not sure why he'd want to though.. they are horrible in the bedroom.

if you are so desperate for sex, just pick up a woman in her 30s. women in their 30s are totally desperate and would even pay for sex with a young guy like you..
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is that really true?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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surfdog said:
you make me sick:eek:
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What? You want that to happen to you, too? :crazy:
 
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