"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Trying to get over that phase..

Frenchconnection

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Why is it that when I'm talking to a "unattractive" girl, I have trouble wanting to be in that "flirt" mode, the mode that I would be if I was talking to an attractive girl.

I'm thinking that not so hot girls actually are nicer and more receptive than a HB!

I want to get over this phase because I know that I'm limiting myself.

Anyone else going through the same thing?:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ViciousDADogg

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That's a good thing. Where your average dude shys from hot women, and talks to ugly once because they are less intimidating, you're 180 degrees different.

That means you're not hiding your sexuality no more.


Talking to ugly women. I don't know man. I tend to look away from them. I know some pimps dive right in when they see a fat disgusting girl. Become nasty wtih her and the whole nine yards. I simply don't have a stomatch for that.
 

Frenchconnection

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I think it's shallow of me to think less (as in flirt potential) of a girl if she's not attractive. :(
 

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Practice your confidence and conversational skills with everyone, use your flirtation with girls you are attracted to.
 

Frenchconnection

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StoneColdFox said:
Practice your confidence and conversational skills with everyone, use your flirtation with girls you are attracted to.
Yeah you're right, not every girl I talk to must be a shag!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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