"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Trying to get over that phase..

Frenchconnection

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Why is it that when I'm talking to a "unattractive" girl, I have trouble wanting to be in that "flirt" mode, the mode that I would be if I was talking to an attractive girl.

I'm thinking that not so hot girls actually are nicer and more receptive than a HB!

I want to get over this phase because I know that I'm limiting myself.

Anyone else going through the same thing?:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ViciousDADogg

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That's a good thing. Where your average dude shys from hot women, and talks to ugly once because they are less intimidating, you're 180 degrees different.

That means you're not hiding your sexuality no more.


Talking to ugly women. I don't know man. I tend to look away from them. I know some pimps dive right in when they see a fat disgusting girl. Become nasty wtih her and the whole nine yards. I simply don't have a stomatch for that.
 

Frenchconnection

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I think it's shallow of me to think less (as in flirt potential) of a girl if she's not attractive. :(
 

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Practice your confidence and conversational skills with everyone, use your flirtation with girls you are attracted to.
 

Frenchconnection

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StoneColdFox said:
Practice your confidence and conversational skills with everyone, use your flirtation with girls you are attracted to.
Yeah you're right, not every girl I talk to must be a shag!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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