Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trying to get over that phase..

Frenchconnection

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Why is it that when I'm talking to a "unattractive" girl, I have trouble wanting to be in that "flirt" mode, the mode that I would be if I was talking to an attractive girl.

I'm thinking that not so hot girls actually are nicer and more receptive than a HB!

I want to get over this phase because I know that I'm limiting myself.

Anyone else going through the same thing?:confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ViciousDADogg

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That's a good thing. Where your average dude shys from hot women, and talks to ugly once because they are less intimidating, you're 180 degrees different.

That means you're not hiding your sexuality no more.


Talking to ugly women. I don't know man. I tend to look away from them. I know some pimps dive right in when they see a fat disgusting girl. Become nasty wtih her and the whole nine yards. I simply don't have a stomatch for that.
 

Frenchconnection

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I think it's shallow of me to think less (as in flirt potential) of a girl if she's not attractive. :(
 

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Practice your confidence and conversational skills with everyone, use your flirtation with girls you are attracted to.
 

Frenchconnection

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StoneColdFox said:
Practice your confidence and conversational skills with everyone, use your flirtation with girls you are attracted to.
Yeah you're right, not every girl I talk to must be a shag!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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