I have a question. Do girls who like u try to get u jealous. I have give a couple of expemples. A very sexy girl in school likes me. She's been playing with me a lot recently. There're are a lot more reasons why i know she likes me. Anyway let me get to the point. She flirts with other guys infront of me, guys she wouldn't usually flirt with. It's done in a way just so i can see. Here's another example. This girl that i wanted. She new i wanted her but now we're just friends. She knows that i do not like her anymore. She gives me messages to pass to my sister. Messages like " Tell your sister that I havn't spoken to the boy yet." Lol. And the funny thing is that she and my sister speak all the time. Are these girls trying to make me jealous or something? I'm confused. I'm kind of enjoying it all though. Drop your thoughts and opinion on the situation. Peace
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Trying to get me jealous?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
catch
Senior Don Juan
i get that alot alot, so i bet i know what youve been doing...
you havent made any big moves i bet, your probably just flirting with her and thats it...
if thats the case then you need to hurry up, shes not making you jelouse buddy, no.. she is actually loosing inertrest...
the window of of opportunity is closing man... hurry up be fore its too late...
you havent made any big moves i bet, your probably just flirting with her and thats it...
if thats the case then you need to hurry up, shes not making you jelouse buddy, no.. she is actually loosing inertrest...
the window of of opportunity is closing man... hurry up be fore its too late...
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
A few possibilities:
Is she trying to make you jealous with these guys or trying to make some guy jealous with you?
Are they attention *****s?
Are they aware of the effect they are having?
The answer is - it doesn't matter that much.
Decide what you want to do.
Worrying to much about your perception of what someone is trying to subtly suggest will not lead to an absolute answer.
They are aware of you, if you are interested in them ( and not their availability), push that boundary.
It sounds like you are interested in the first. You know she likes to flirt. Flirt back, then push the boundary.
Is she trying to make you jealous with these guys or trying to make some guy jealous with you?
Are they attention *****s?
Are they aware of the effect they are having?
The answer is - it doesn't matter that much.
Decide what you want to do.
Worrying to much about your perception of what someone is trying to subtly suggest will not lead to an absolute answer.
They are aware of you, if you are interested in them ( and not their availability), push that boundary.
It sounds like you are interested in the first. You know she likes to flirt. Flirt back, then push the boundary.
DeathDealer
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Uh, a girl that likes you and respects you will not disrespect you in this manner. If anything other girls will try to make your girl jealous by flirting it up to you.
I agree with this but do you really think the girl is totally losing interest? Maybe she is just thinking that the guy isn't interested in her so she is moving on.Originally posted by catch
i get that alot alot, so i bet i know what youve been doing...
you havent made any big moves i bet, your probably just flirting with her and thats it...
if thats the case then you need to hurry up, shes not making you jelouse buddy, no.. she is actually loosing inertrest...
the window of of opportunity is closing man... hurry up be fore its too late...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
catch
Senior Don Juan
yeah thats it, but i didnt think shes lost all interest, so he needs to get jiggy with it or its end game, "ljbf"
Interesting. I think i'll do something about it. Oh and i'm not jealous nor do i really care that much if i lose her or not. And 'catch', yeah you're right. I've just been flirting with her but hasn't made any major moves.