I have a question. Do girls who like u try to get u jealous. I have give a couple of expemples. A very sexy girl in school likes me. She's been playing with me a lot recently. There're are a lot more reasons why i know she likes me. Anyway let me get to the point. She flirts with other guys infront of me, guys she wouldn't usually flirt with. It's done in a way just so i can see. Here's another example. This girl that i wanted. She new i wanted her but now we're just friends. She knows that i do not like her anymore. She gives me messages to pass to my sister. Messages like " Tell your sister that I havn't spoken to the boy yet." Lol. And the funny thing is that she and my sister speak all the time. Are these girls trying to make me jealous or something? I'm confused. I'm kind of enjoying it all though. Drop your thoughts and opinion on the situation. Peace
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Trying to get me jealous?
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catch
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i get that alot alot, so i bet i know what youve been doing...
you havent made any big moves i bet, your probably just flirting with her and thats it...
if thats the case then you need to hurry up, shes not making you jelouse buddy, no.. she is actually loosing inertrest...
the window of of opportunity is closing man... hurry up be fore its too late...
you havent made any big moves i bet, your probably just flirting with her and thats it...
if thats the case then you need to hurry up, shes not making you jelouse buddy, no.. she is actually loosing inertrest...
the window of of opportunity is closing man... hurry up be fore its too late...
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A few possibilities:
Is she trying to make you jealous with these guys or trying to make some guy jealous with you?
Are they attention *****s?
Are they aware of the effect they are having?
The answer is - it doesn't matter that much.
Decide what you want to do.
Worrying to much about your perception of what someone is trying to subtly suggest will not lead to an absolute answer.
They are aware of you, if you are interested in them ( and not their availability), push that boundary.
It sounds like you are interested in the first. You know she likes to flirt. Flirt back, then push the boundary.
Is she trying to make you jealous with these guys or trying to make some guy jealous with you?
Are they attention *****s?
Are they aware of the effect they are having?
The answer is - it doesn't matter that much.
Decide what you want to do.
Worrying to much about your perception of what someone is trying to subtly suggest will not lead to an absolute answer.
They are aware of you, if you are interested in them ( and not their availability), push that boundary.
It sounds like you are interested in the first. You know she likes to flirt. Flirt back, then push the boundary.
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Uh, a girl that likes you and respects you will not disrespect you in this manner. If anything other girls will try to make your girl jealous by flirting it up to you.
I agree with this but do you really think the girl is totally losing interest? Maybe she is just thinking that the guy isn't interested in her so she is moving on.Originally posted by catch
i get that alot alot, so i bet i know what youve been doing...
you havent made any big moves i bet, your probably just flirting with her and thats it...
if thats the case then you need to hurry up, shes not making you jelouse buddy, no.. she is actually loosing inertrest...
the window of of opportunity is closing man... hurry up be fore its too late...
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
catch
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yeah thats it, but i didnt think shes lost all interest, so he needs to get jiggy with it or its end game, "ljbf"
Interesting. I think i'll do something about it. Oh and i'm not jealous nor do i really care that much if i lose her or not. And 'catch', yeah you're right. I've just been flirting with her but hasn't made any major moves.