Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trying to get back out there

Mex

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Okay, It has been a while since I posted. I never used to be a guy to approach women. I am pretty nervous and insecure, especcially about my height (5-6).

However, last fall I was trying to make a change. I found this site and tried some tips with no real success, but at least got some experience. Then my ex came into town for an internship and well, as you might imagine, thats where I have been since. Now she is gone and we are broken up again. Now I am ready to get back into action.

Now, I have a tough time going out meeting girls since I am a grad student and very busy with research, teaching etc. However, I ride the bus everyday to school and encounter some hot chicks, but it is tough to approach, especially if they are not sitting near me. I think it would be pretty weird to go out my my way to approach one of these chicks without seeming like a creep. Anyway, without bantering too much, there is one chick who is just absolutely gorgeous, but by the time she gets on the bus, there are no seats near me so I have no chance to talk to her. Then she gets off at a different stop from me.

Does anyone have any ideas on how I can talk to her without seeming creepy? By the way, I can not get off at her stop since that would mean I miss about the first 15 minutes of class that I have to teach. Also, I don't even think she has ever noticed me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Max Power

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No advice, but I'd be interested in hearing some answers.

However, I don't think it's healty to have borderline oneitis for some chick on public transportation that you don't even know.
 

Teh_Wolf

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could you sit nearer to where she would be sitting? thats probably kinda stalkerish tho lol
 
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