Part of being reflective is being completely honest with yourself. I have many goals I want to achieve in life and being good with women is one of them as a 34 year old man.. Im not lonely, Im not looking for a girlfriend but I purely want to be better to attract better women. I think I know what Im doing.... I read a lot about what I should do but in complete honesty, I dont always do the right things... I need help. I am humble enough to admit that to a group of complete strangers.
So I am going to start posting my interactions with women, with complete honesty and transparency. I will do my best to try to post before I act because this is all a learning experience for me. I just want to figure this out once and for all, and create consistent success.
I currently in my life, I have 3 girls in my life... 2 could be prospects(not sure). One is completely in love with me and she stays the night from time to time.
The girl that is completely in love with me, is a beautiful girl but to be honest, she just isn't that smart. She is a nice girl but that purely stays in the bed and she knows that.
The second girl is a girl ive liked for a little over a year.. She really is cool, beautiful,successful... I know we arent supposed let girls linger and not get oneitis but its hard to not to like her... And part of it is my fault because ive never escalated with her.. She is hot and cold a lot.. So I give her as much space as I can and let her contact me... But we have a lot of fun together.. We are supposed to hang out next week, so we will see about that one.. I need to see this one through because I need to either get it right, figure it out, or let it go...
Then there is this girl at my job.... Well there are two actually. My job is really open minded and they somewhat encourage employee relationships so, I just chill. Im not a bad looking guy and I am a bit quieter, so I randomly get notes left at my desk for girls in the building... There is this new girl on my floor and she is cute..Brown hair, athletic body... I will make my way to talk to her somehow someway.
But an interesting thing happened today... There is pretty brown skinned Caribbean girl... Ive notice her a few times before but never said anything.. Today she was walking by my desk and I yelled out," Good morning! Dont look so sad! Smile!" And she smiled and started talking to me about the job and our futures with the company. As I was talking to her, I got a phone call and she nodded that she understood. But she did an interesting thing, she grabbed the notepad off my desk and wrote her number on it.... I dont want to jump to conclusions on that one.. She could be being friendly but, I just wanted to express that with everyone before I move forward...
I truly want you guys to be the controller and Ill be the video game. Learning doing it what I want to achieve... So ill take any and all advice if it makes sense...
I hope i am able to entertain you guys a littlle bit.. Thanx a lot.
So I am going to start posting my interactions with women, with complete honesty and transparency. I will do my best to try to post before I act because this is all a learning experience for me. I just want to figure this out once and for all, and create consistent success.
I currently in my life, I have 3 girls in my life... 2 could be prospects(not sure). One is completely in love with me and she stays the night from time to time.
The girl that is completely in love with me, is a beautiful girl but to be honest, she just isn't that smart. She is a nice girl but that purely stays in the bed and she knows that.
The second girl is a girl ive liked for a little over a year.. She really is cool, beautiful,successful... I know we arent supposed let girls linger and not get oneitis but its hard to not to like her... And part of it is my fault because ive never escalated with her.. She is hot and cold a lot.. So I give her as much space as I can and let her contact me... But we have a lot of fun together.. We are supposed to hang out next week, so we will see about that one.. I need to see this one through because I need to either get it right, figure it out, or let it go...
Then there is this girl at my job.... Well there are two actually. My job is really open minded and they somewhat encourage employee relationships so, I just chill. Im not a bad looking guy and I am a bit quieter, so I randomly get notes left at my desk for girls in the building... There is this new girl on my floor and she is cute..Brown hair, athletic body... I will make my way to talk to her somehow someway.
But an interesting thing happened today... There is pretty brown skinned Caribbean girl... Ive notice her a few times before but never said anything.. Today she was walking by my desk and I yelled out," Good morning! Dont look so sad! Smile!" And she smiled and started talking to me about the job and our futures with the company. As I was talking to her, I got a phone call and she nodded that she understood. But she did an interesting thing, she grabbed the notepad off my desk and wrote her number on it.... I dont want to jump to conclusions on that one.. She could be being friendly but, I just wanted to express that with everyone before I move forward...
I truly want you guys to be the controller and Ill be the video game. Learning doing it what I want to achieve... So ill take any and all advice if it makes sense...
I hope i am able to entertain you guys a littlle bit.. Thanx a lot.