First a quick update on the woman I had met in dance class and forgotten to exchange numbers with... I found her on myspace and said hi, she gave me her number without me even having to ask for it. Went out on a date, made out a bunch, had her falling head over heels for me. All's well there. Problem is...
... there is this other woman I've been seeing for a while who seems totally into me and devoted to me. She treats me like gold. Makes me feel like a million bucks (even when I am not deserving). She is ok looking, but is a terrific companion. Extremely giving, very sexual, very nurturing, very warm and intelligent and self-aware. she's laying out the relationship trap thick and heavy for me.
It is very unusual for me to be getting so much admiration and respect. If I could imagine an ideal relationship dynamic for me, it would be very close to what I have with this woman. I am liking it, but there are a few red flags. She seems extremely possessive. She looked into my cellphone for my sent text messages today. She is soon to be 32 and all her friends are married and have had babies this past year, so I am afraid her attention to me might be a result of her biological clock and peer pressure. I made it clear to her I am not looking to settle down any time soon, but she is a woman, so I don't know how she interpreted it.
My dilemma is this, do I settle down with a HB7 to explore what could be a fulfilling relationship, or do I keep messing around and meeting other women? I am 27 myself. It seems to me it could be a good relationship (I could talk her into respecting my privacy and not snoop around on me). At what stage do you stop macking around and live out the relationship you've been searching for? I could use some input from experienced people.
... there is this other woman I've been seeing for a while who seems totally into me and devoted to me. She treats me like gold. Makes me feel like a million bucks (even when I am not deserving). She is ok looking, but is a terrific companion. Extremely giving, very sexual, very nurturing, very warm and intelligent and self-aware. she's laying out the relationship trap thick and heavy for me.
It is very unusual for me to be getting so much admiration and respect. If I could imagine an ideal relationship dynamic for me, it would be very close to what I have with this woman. I am liking it, but there are a few red flags. She seems extremely possessive. She looked into my cellphone for my sent text messages today. She is soon to be 32 and all her friends are married and have had babies this past year, so I am afraid her attention to me might be a result of her biological clock and peer pressure. I made it clear to her I am not looking to settle down any time soon, but she is a woman, so I don't know how she interpreted it.
My dilemma is this, do I settle down with a HB7 to explore what could be a fulfilling relationship, or do I keep messing around and meeting other women? I am 27 myself. It seems to me it could be a good relationship (I could talk her into respecting my privacy and not snoop around on me). At what stage do you stop macking around and live out the relationship you've been searching for? I could use some input from experienced people.
