Try to help me maintain frame with current gf

[captain55]

I recently pulled this Bad little 21 year old. She is fine as hell. Unfortunately she is so tight that I can barely fit in her, and after years of using condoms I can’t last long enough in bed with her to get her off raw dogging. I am well endowed so I feel like I’m literally all show no go right now.

I tried talking to her about condoms she refuses. She is more difficult to get to orgasm than any other girl I have ever been with I can’t get her off with my fingers either. She told me the other day she “doesn’t want this sex life” and she was sexually frustrated with her last two boyfriends for years...she doesn’t like giving head either. I feel like she just expects me to be a sex machine.

I pulled back slightly ...but Interest level still seems high. She still initiates things with me. But I feel like if I can’t learn to last longer with her I’m going to lose her.

what do I do fellas?

 

[SirBigBell]

This one is simple to solve.
Bust one nut by yourself first in private to depressurise your system, so that your first penetrative round will in essence be your second in real terms. To further boost your performance, have a glass of whiskey, rum or any spirit liquor of your choice about 30mins before you session her. Alcohol in moderation tends to desensitise your warhead a little and dampen your excitability enough, without cutting power to your engine. Enjoy

 

[17 shots]

You lost me at "she doesn't like giving head"

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

bust a nut in her then bang her again and again. If they arent leaving with internal damage you're not doing it right

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I got this same issue, sexual compatibility Is above all

 

[Black Widow Void]

My experience is that women that are open to being screwed, but not as responsive to hands "down there" may have suffered some previous abuse. Not sure if this is your situation or not, but just sharing my past experiences.

Unsure if this will be useful, but it worked wonders with a girl that wasn't too receptive to my tongue or fingers.

Before penetrating, I'd use my 'tool' to stroke her. The more I did this, the more in to it, she became. She was also quite tight and I knew that I'd be a 'gonner' more soon than I'd want. Building her up with the sort of foreplay beforehand helped her achieve and also left me appearing "less selfish."

 

[andreihaha]

bust a nut in her then bang her again and again. If they arent leaving with internal damage you're not doing it right

Kinda my advice too.
If you want to maintain a relationship with her, why not be honest. Tell her she's so tight that you can barely resist inside her.
She won't say no to 2 rounds in a row.

Sounds like first world problems a bit, it's way worse to go inside a black hole. And she probably will loosen up a bit with time.
Worst case scenario you will fk her twice as much, right? Could be worse.

 

[captain55]

My experience is that women that are open to being screwed, but not as responsive to hands "down there" may have suffered some previous abuse. Not sure if this is your situation or not, but just sharing my past experiences.

Unsure if this will be useful, but it worked wonders with a girl that wasn't too receptive to my tongue or fingers.

Before penetrating, I'd use my 'tool' to stroke her. The more I did this, the more in to it, she became. She was also quite tight and I knew that I'd be a 'gonner' more soon than I'd want. Building her up with the sort of foreplay beforehand helped her achieve and also left me appearing "less selfish."

interesting you say that. She told me she has been abused,and told me she was raped in the past

 

[captain55]

Kinda my advice too.
If you want to maintain a relationship with her, why not be honest. Tell her she's so tight that you can barely resist inside her.
She won't say no to 2 rounds in a row.

Sounds like first world problems a bit, it's way worse to go inside a black hole. And she probably will loosen up a bit with time.
Worst case scenario you will fk her twice as much, right? Could be worse.

it’s not a first world problem I’m legit worried she is going to leave me. This has never been a problem for me before I’ve gone 2-3 rounds usually no issue. When I mentioned this to her she said “no I want you to be able to last the first time.” The fast that she is not giving head is not helping.

it’s becoming more of being judged on a stage for me now than actually enjoying the sex. I got this hot ass chick, bent over, with no condom...and I’m supposed to **** the **** out of her and not *** for 20 minutes? Not happening..

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

Wish i had your problem, orgasm doesnt happen much for me anymore period.
My only other suggestion is when you feel yourself starting to go, you stop or slow down, think of your mom or grandma as you grind on her a little bit til the urge passes and then lite it up again. Rinse & repeat.
Also isnt there some desensitizing creams available to make guys last longer?? She'll probably leave at some point regardless so just enough her while you have her, its just your turn anyways

 

[captain55]

Wish i had your problem, orgasm doesnt happen much for me anymore period.
My only other suggestion is when you feel yourself starting to go, you stop or slow down, think of your mom or grandma as you grind on her a little bit til the urge passes and then lite it up again. Rinse & repeat.
Also isnt there some desensitizing creams available to make guys last longer?? She'll probably leave at some point regardless so just enough her while you have her, its just your turn anyways

Exactly what I do and she just gets mad. I do agree all women leave at some point. But you don’t wanna spin plates forever the **** gets old. It’s time consuming. I get tired of playing the game

 

[andreihaha]

Exactly what I do and she just gets mad. I do agree all women leave at some point. But you don’t wanna spin plates forever the **** gets old. It’s time consuming. I get tired of playing the game

Well, if she gets mad, are you sure you want to be with her? Yeah, hot chicks are good but I think most of us eventually want more that just a hot body, right? Might be a good thing to check your soul once in while...

I had a somehow similar experience. Got closer to God(I am orthodox) and the problem disappeared. I'm just throwing my idea out there.

 

[captain55]

I mean...

but honestly man she is literally perfect in every other way.Yeah I’ve had better sex but as long as it’s good I’m fine. I’m 28 and want kids, not trying to spin plates forever

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I recently pulled this Bad little 21 year old. She is fine as hell. Unfortunately she is so tight that I can barely fit in her, and after years of using condoms I can’t last long enough in bed with her to get her off raw dogging. I am well endowed so I feel like I’m literally all show no go right now.

I tried talking to her about condoms she refuses. She is more difficult to get to orgasm than any other girl I have ever been with I can’t get her off with my fingers either. She told me the other day she “doesn’t want this sex life” and she was sexually frustrated with her last two boyfriends for years...she doesn’t like giving head either. I feel like she just expects me to be a sex machine.

I pulled back slightly ...but Interest level still seems high. She still initiates things with me. But I feel like if I can’t learn to last longer with her I’m going to lose her.

what do I do fellas?

She doesn't let you eat her? If your the only guy in there, you might as well eat her till she cums. Either before or after the sex.

 

[captain55]

She doesn't let you eat her? If your the only guy in there, you might as well eat her till she cums. Either before or after the sex.

I eat her out a lot. She’s the hardest girl I’ve ever been with to make ***

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I recently pulled this Bad little 21 year old. She is fine as hell. Unfortunately she is so tight that I can barely fit in her, and after years of using condoms I can’t last long enough in bed with her to get her off raw dogging. I am well endowed so I feel like I’m literally all show no go right now.

I tried talking to her about condoms she refuses. She is more difficult to get to orgasm than any other girl I have ever been with I can’t get her off with my fingers either. She told me the other day she “doesn’t want this sex life” and she was sexually frustrated with her last two boyfriends for years...she doesn’t like giving head either. I feel like she just expects me to be a sex machine.

I pulled back slightly ...but Interest level still seems high. She still initiates things with me. But I feel like if I can’t learn to last longer with her I’m going to lose her.

what do I do fellas?

It's mental brother. girls these days are getting ran through regardless of how young. If she's hooked on toys, get her away from those. Women can get hooked on those like men on porn.

No head is a deal breaker. Plate her. Note the previous guys had a similar situation. She's the problem.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I eat her out a lot. She’s the hardest girl I’ve ever been with to make ***

Trying way too hard. A great frame is more alpha. Not discussing her not like swallowing but instructing her what to do. Again, anytime a girl says no or sets a boundary, some other dude is getting a pass.

Try hard won't end well. She's 21 and cute. At midnight someone hotter is turning 18. Never forget.

Bring A game but only if she's got no boundaries. Going down on a girl is gross don't do that. Esp if she's not giving head.

 

[captain55]

Trying way too hard. A great frame is more alpha. Not discussing her not like swallowing but instructing her what to do. Again, anytime a girl says no or sets a boundary, some other dude is getting a pass.

Try hard won't end well. She's 21 and cute. At midnight someone hotter is turning 18. Never forget.

Bring A game but only if she's got no boundaries. Going down on a girl is gross don't do that. Esp if she's not giving head.

that’s the thing I don’t want to have to ask a girl to give me head. I like a girl that does it without asking

 

[rjc149]

Most women cannot orgasm from PinV intercourse alone. 10% have never climaxed in their entire lives.

Get good with your fingers and G-spots. Make sure there's a lot of foreplay.

 

[Roober]

For a woman to talk like that, she...

a) already lacks respect for you, and
b) likely has a lot of mileage