Try to help me maintain frame with current gf

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

BackInTheGame78

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Jan 23, 2021

captain55 said:
Took out the big guns. Popped 50mg of viagra ****ed the ***** until she couldn’t walk. Made her orgasm 3 times. Now I hate viagra, I hate how it makes me feel. If she wakes up tomorrow not remembering any of the sex we had I am done with her

If you need viagara I would go see a cardiologist. You likely are foreshadowing a heart attack in your future if you don't make some changes.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.