"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For all the guys who are outcome dependent or lacking confidence. Try my boyish idea.

Common advice to gaining confidence & having a life is to have hobbies & interests yeah? So let's expand on it a bit.

If you have a brother(younger or older), male cousins, your dad, your uncle, your grandpa or your best friends. Why not share interests or hobbies with them & start some competition.:up:

In other words, for any and/or any activity find a rival & make that one of your main focuses. As you grow & develop girls should take a back seat & you should start feeling a bit more confident especially if this competition improves you physically.

You can even compete heavily in video games if that's your deal.

Hell you can even become a little obsessed with outdoing your rival & make that your 1# focus. This could work especially if you're in college or university, by competing in academics it can lead you to be on of the best & make you successful.

Are you over 25? Hell compete with your workmates, see who can be the most efficient employee.

Run your own business? Compete with a guy who runs his own business.

You get the idea yeah?

I think it was Pook who said something like, "a man gets a woman when he gets a life but a woman gets a life when she gets a man".

Friendly competition brings out the best in us men. :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plus, when a men wins a competition his testosterone levels are increased!
Where I read this, it was also saying that if for example a boxer wins a game, if after the game he fight the same opponent again, he will win him again, cause of his testosterone being higher than normal!

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DonJuanit0 said:
Plus, when a men wins a competition his testosterone levels are increased!
Where I read this, it was also saying that if for example a boxer wins a game, if after the game he fight the same opponent again, he will win him again, cause of his testosterone being higher than normal!

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Ah..I didn't even know that. Makes it even better.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nygard said:
That's actually a good idea. I wish I had a good relationship with my brother, it would have been fun.
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Do you have any male cousins? Good/Best friends? This can work with any male.
 
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No , scratch family, I rarely see them on my day to day life. I can try something like that with friends, if I can get them to do something. They're kinda lazy.
 
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Dang. I've had some lazy friends before & it was damn near impossible to get them motivated, I still had to end up using girls to keep em to compete with me.
 
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DonJuanit0 said:
Plus, when a men wins a competition his testosterone levels are increased!
Where I read this, it was also saying that if for example a boxer wins a game, if after the game he fight the same opponent again, he will win him again, cause of his testosterone being higher than normal!

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That's true, as is the opposite. A decrease in testosterone levels when you lose!
Part of the reason you feel like crap after losing a game of football for example.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SuSHI said:
Wouldn't it make more sense to compete against another dude in pick up?
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Not exactly. Competing against another guy in pick up can make things worse. It have to be guy you are really down with so that you two can make a solid understanding so it doesn't degenerate into you & the dude beating the tar out of each other.

Having competition outside of women clears your head, shifts your goals & focus to other stuff & that in turn will make you more appealing.
 
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