For all the guys who are outcome dependent or lacking confidence. Try my boyish idea.
Common advice to gaining confidence & having a life is to have hobbies & interests yeah? So let's expand on it a bit.
If you have a brother(younger or older), male cousins, your dad, your uncle, your grandpa or your best friends. Why not share interests or hobbies with them & start some competition.
In other words, for any and/or any activity find a rival & make that one of your main focuses. As you grow & develop girls should take a back seat & you should start feeling a bit more confident especially if this competition improves you physically.
You can even compete heavily in video games if that's your deal.
Hell you can even become a little obsessed with outdoing your rival & make that your 1# focus. This could work especially if you're in college or university, by competing in academics it can lead you to be on of the best & make you successful.
Are you over 25? Hell compete with your workmates, see who can be the most efficient employee.
Run your own business? Compete with a guy who runs his own business.
You get the idea yeah?
I think it was Pook who said something like, "a man gets a woman when he gets a life but a woman gets a life when she gets a man".
Friendly competition brings out the best in us men.
Common advice to gaining confidence & having a life is to have hobbies & interests yeah? So let's expand on it a bit.
If you have a brother(younger or older), male cousins, your dad, your uncle, your grandpa or your best friends. Why not share interests or hobbies with them & start some competition.
In other words, for any and/or any activity find a rival & make that one of your main focuses. As you grow & develop girls should take a back seat & you should start feeling a bit more confident especially if this competition improves you physically.
You can even compete heavily in video games if that's your deal.
Hell you can even become a little obsessed with outdoing your rival & make that your 1# focus. This could work especially if you're in college or university, by competing in academics it can lead you to be on of the best & make you successful.
Are you over 25? Hell compete with your workmates, see who can be the most efficient employee.
Run your own business? Compete with a guy who runs his own business.
You get the idea yeah?
I think it was Pook who said something like, "a man gets a woman when he gets a life but a woman gets a life when she gets a man".
Friendly competition brings out the best in us men.
