I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No, she won’t. The valuation is from the beginning. You either get put in the top guy box or the option box. No amount of game will overcome being put in the option box.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It’s not manageable. If she’s an 8 and sees you as an 8 she will believe instinctively that she can do better than you. Your game can only stave off that believe in spurts. The moment the relationship gets rocky she will wonder why she settled with an equal.
No, it's not.
Ideally,yes.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Momma knows all the bitchmoves..... never accept dating advice from women, except from your mother.
This is key
but she will pick an option over top guy in some cases if the option guy plays it right or are you telling that top guy box is different? what is the advantage of being the top guy vs an option that is accepted? not splitting hair, but is there a difference? The top guy isn't permanent, is it? Isn't it that a better top guy can appear at any moment to replace the top guy. Just all options boxes then. what am I missing?
at some point she is gonna get bored and push you away , set your watch to it
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No, they won’t. Women get bored when they don’t have to do any work in the relationship. That mostly comes from guys being predictable and showering them with attention. Just keep the initiation ratio at 70-80%. If she pulls back, you pull back. Keep some space in a relationship; don’t see her all the time. A woman who is chasing cannot simultaneously be dumping.
yes they will . eventually she's gonna test to see what you're made.
She doesn’t shvt test just to fvck with you. She shvt tests when you are wavering. Relationship maintenance is not hard. Just act like a man, let her come to you, and give her beta throws when she needs some support.
great , we dont have to agree on everything thats your opinion and i have mines.
My experience is shvt tests have a negative correlation to interest level.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You see hot chicks with dudes way lower than them in the looks department all the time. I literally saw a chick that was smoking hot with a great body and beautiful face with a dude that was like 350 lbs a few weeks ago...she looked happy as fvck to be with that dude, so obviously he must have been doing something right. And no, it wasn't that he had a bunch of money either based on what they pulled up in.
He had a bunch a money just not flexing it
I may need an explanation here.
Exactly my point, I wasn't really talking disgusting fat dudes, more 6-8's who have a 9, but that 9 in her mind, the guy is a 9 too (maybe she thinks she's an 8). It can and does happen, not everything is so black and white
He believed he was worth it and so did she. When people don't know you, they will usually believe what you believe about yourself and your value.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.