"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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try doing the opposite

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There are 1000's of men who try every pick up line and c&f and kino and "you name it". I think that what guys like de Angelo are aiming at, apart from selling their books, is that you try all these things as, and when, they suit.

I am not brilliant with chicks but am probably a little less retarded than 90% of the other blokes in here. I personally believe that simply being astute works well, trying things that others may not be trying. Fact is, SHE knows EVERY line EVER told, she knows DJ guff, AFC guff and she knows the game better than you do.

Now, my real forte is business, I am good at it, very good at it, thats why I cant spend hours and hours in here typing shyte al the time. Anyway, the single best piece of advice I could ever give anyone works, and works well. It works well in business and it will work well with women, YES, I have tried and tested it. It is not 100% successful, what is? BUT, it really is a great starting point.

Most people do and say the same thing...sheep, others, lets call them shepherds, well they do THEIR OWN thing. A lot of DJ's have tried to explain this in different forms but the point seems to always get missed. I will put it in the same terms I would recommend to a person seeking advice on business success.

Find out what ALL the others are doing and do THE EXACT OPPOSITE. Don't only row in another direction, find a different river. For Gods sake dont try the c&f thing unless you really are ****y and funny by nature.

The best advice I could give to anyone in here under 28 years of age is, SLOW DOWN, WHATS THE RUSH? Pursure your dreams, you WILL NOT find your dreams in the arms of some ltr, there IS NOT 1 person for everyone, there is 50000 people for every one.

So, watch your competition, study them and do the exact opposite to the same woman they are after, YOU WILL stand out. Wasn't this a Seinfeld episode? If 4 men are being ****y and funny to her, be sincere and kind. If 4 men are being AFC to her, be assertive and pretentous. If 3 men are rippling their muscles in front of her, hit her with your smarts. If 4 men are outwitting each other with her, show her your muscle. If 2 men are being introverted, be extraverted, and vice versa. Do the exact OPPOSITE, give her something to look at from a different angle.

Finally, dont compete front on unless you know you can whip the enemy, otherwise "hit them on the ends", flank them. It probably all sounds like total bullshyte to many of you but it does work, it really does.

If you have money, looks and a great body, you need not bother so much, the mountain will come to you. If you are an average joe, you need to emply arsenol, THIS is the best form of arsenol. Just try it dudes. Mind you, if it works, you then have to continue to impress otherwise she will realise she was jipped and will probably be a little pissed.

This is where DJ rule number one is best. BE YOUR OWN MAN, PURSUE SELF IMPROVEMENT, BE THE BALL. Wasn't that in Caddyshack?

Anyway, that killed ten minutes, back to work for me. ciao all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey that advice is SOLID GOLD
goodstuff

Ben

The part i like most would have to be the 'DO THE OPPOSITE'
re: So, watch your competition, study them and do the exact opposite to the same woman they are after, YOU WILL stand out. Wasn't this a Seinfeld episode? If 4 men are being ****y and funny to her, be sincere and kind. If 4 men are being AFC to her, be assertive and pretentous. If 3 men are rippling their muscles in front of her, hit her with your smarts. If 4 men are outwitting each other with her, show her your muscle. If 2 men are being introverted, be extraverted, and vice versa. Do the exact OPPOSITE, give her something to look at from a different angle.

Alphamale: I like it because it has to work. Women love men that stand out from the rest of the guys and it also shows ur not competiting against the guys to show who should win her if u do that then u are in fact qualifying urself to her.

You are qualifying yourself to prove to her that u can and could be the winner on top but she knows ur qualifying yourself and kinda knows she can have u, no challenge there.

Ben
 

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He probably knows that soon after that your sperm start dying and you better find someone to spread your seed lol j/k
If you are not married or find yourself in a worthwhile LTR by age 27-28 you are in trouble... you've done something wrong. Do you want your 15 year old kid to have a 60 yr old father ... that'd suck
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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