Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pozitron

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It's this girl I met months ago. I talked with her on FB a little. Then she recognized me on the bus and we met for real. I saw her a couple of times at school. Once I started a convo with her on FB cause I haven't seen her for some time and I went with the flow and when I thought it was the right time I asked her to go out somewhere. She said she couldn't cause she was busy but she said we would talk about that.
From there I haven't really made contact with her besides "hi".
Now I sa her in school. This was the first day of the 2nd semester. Actually, she noticed me first and greeted me and as I passed I did the same.

Should I try something again with this girl? What? Ask her out?
I don't think it's friend zone.. I think it was a bad move to ask her back then through the internet.
She's in a different class and I don't really get the chance to talk to her.
Suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pozitron

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So.. just try to chat with her ..nothing serious and then maybe ask her to go somewhere? I don't realy know where to go.
I have to make it public though and somewhere I can talk. So movies.. neah... I don't realy know?
 
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