"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pozitron

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It's this girl I met months ago. I talked with her on FB a little. Then she recognized me on the bus and we met for real. I saw her a couple of times at school. Once I started a convo with her on FB cause I haven't seen her for some time and I went with the flow and when I thought it was the right time I asked her to go out somewhere. She said she couldn't cause she was busy but she said we would talk about that.
From there I haven't really made contact with her besides "hi".
Now I sa her in school. This was the first day of the 2nd semester. Actually, she noticed me first and greeted me and as I passed I did the same.

Should I try something again with this girl? What? Ask her out?
I don't think it's friend zone.. I think it was a bad move to ask her back then through the internet.
She's in a different class and I don't really get the chance to talk to her.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pozitron

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So.. just try to chat with her ..nothing serious and then maybe ask her to go somewhere? I don't realy know where to go.
I have to make it public though and somewhere I can talk. So movies.. neah... I don't realy know?
 
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