"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Try again?

Pozitron

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It's this girl I met months ago. I talked with her on FB a little. Then she recognized me on the bus and we met for real. I saw her a couple of times at school. Once I started a convo with her on FB cause I haven't seen her for some time and I went with the flow and when I thought it was the right time I asked her to go out somewhere. She said she couldn't cause she was busy but she said we would talk about that.
From there I haven't really made contact with her besides "hi".
Now I sa her in school. This was the first day of the 2nd semester. Actually, she noticed me first and greeted me and as I passed I did the same.

Should I try something again with this girl? What? Ask her out?
I don't think it's friend zone.. I think it was a bad move to ask her back then through the internet.
She's in a different class and I don't really get the chance to talk to her.
Suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Pozitron

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So.. just try to chat with her ..nothing serious and then maybe ask her to go somewhere? I don't realy know where to go.
I have to make it public though and somewhere I can talk. So movies.. neah... I don't realy know?
 
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