"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Truths I've learned.

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- Any woman, even an ugly woman, but especially a cute woman, has male admirers. (More points taken off if she likes said attention or persues it.)

- If/when she loses interest, it can come out of nowhere and she won't change her mind. One sign of weakness and it's as if she never knew you. See the post on here where a guy's mother died of a random illness and the woman dumped him because he was a downer to hang out with.

- If/when she loses interest, even the strongest man can be fragile and end up sounding like an emo or a beginner...depressing...wanting to die...losing meaning in life...doing anything to try to win her back.

-When women fall for a guy, it's completely emotional. For whatever reason (his looks, personality, the way he walks or some stupid thing) she can't get enough of him...but there's no rhyme or reason as to know whether you'll be that guy for a woman. All woman have that idea of their perfect guy and won't budge. You can be dating a woman, and while she's interested enough to date you and be in your presence, she might be waiting for her prince in her mind.

- To sum up, unless a girl is psycho over you and has one-it-is for you, you really don't mean much to her other than a guy to keep around to make her feel wanted.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think men would do a lot better if they started behaving like Moe Szyslak.
 
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A bit cynical but does apply to the vast majority of women. Solid advice overall

Hahaha fortunateson why should we behave like Moe Szyslak? He's an AFC, Quagmire would be a much better model

"Here's the condom I told you I put on"
-Quagmire
 
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I actually Vouch this post, because i am believing the stuff you wrote aswel.

- Another thing is, if you leave your girl/she leaves you, she will tend to be much faster "out there" getting a new guy, since she got all of theese admires, that were just waiting for her to become single.

--> And then when the depressed dude wants her back, well, he is not going to.
 
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